I've written about this before but Conservative Christians usually don't respect women, they think they do, but clearly have no idea what respect actually is. What they respect is an idea or concept they have about women, not the women themselves.
It really is not that hard, respecting women works the same way as respecting men, you have to treat each person as an individual, but this school is not seeing this baseball player as an individual, they only see her as a woman. It is not enough to respect women in general, in fact that is not even a useful concept. If you want to respect women you have to respect each woman as an individual.
This is not respect, forfeiting this game was extremely disrespectful of her because they chose to see her as nothing more than her gender. It is clear that the only thing they respected is their religious regulations, and that is fine, they have a legal right to do that, but Our Lady of Sorrows should not disrespect our intelligence by pretending they did it out of a respect for women.